If questioned, I would be hard pressed to think of a "good thing" about having Alzheimer's disease. Until last week, I wouldn't have an answer. But I think I've found the smallest silver lining in this insidious disease.
Last week was Jan's birthday. Her kids sent her a beautiful bouquet of flowers, which we set up in the living room (we often do this so that everyone can enjoy a little color, and flowers make the residents smile). Every time Jan saw the flowers, she would turn to one of the caregivers and ask, "Who got flowers?"
"Those are yours, Jan. It's your birthday!"
"Well, so it is! Happy Birthday to me!"
We sang "Happy Birthday" at least six times that day, the residents often starting choruses of the song any time Jan's birthday was mentioned. It was kind of a beautiful series of moments.
So, last week, it wasn't just Jan's birthday. For her and for everyone at Russell House, it was her birthday over and over again that day. And the happiness that they felt did not diminish with each new discovery.
Until next time, love eachother and live well.
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Your writing is really amazing - I hope you consider compiling these into a book. I've got several family members with Alzheimers and although it is a sad thing, it is often a funny thing, too. I'm glad to see that you care about your patients and appreciate the humor and life they still have to offer.
Well written article.
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